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Feel like this is really getting to me....

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GSOH · 31/01/2010 22:45

I just need to get this out. I feel like a right idiot. I thought I was friends with a lovley lady, our DD get om and we met fairly often until the last year when she changed hours at work and I had last baby. She has always been unreliable but have come to realise when someone takes weeks to return txts, does'nt try and arrange meeting up or cancels with rubbish or no excuse - then we are probably not friends. I thought we really gelled, we both talked and talked when we met up.

Then I have beem friends with another lady on and off for a few years. Before xmas I tried to arrange quite a few meet ups but she kept putting me off, apparently personal problems - fair enough but she has'nt bothered to get in touch even though this is sorted.

I don't know what I am doing wrong, maybe I'm just boring.

I don't feel like keeping in touch with the couple of other friends I've got, might as well just not bother. As for doing school run and going to baby group, think I'll just keep myself to myself.

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groundhogs · 31/01/2010 23:30

oh please don't let the idiocy of two women, who wouldn't know a good friend if she standing right in front of them.. (that's YOU btw!)

Some people we meet seem to be our great friends, but for them the same doesn't apply, the chemistry's not there.

I know how you feel, i just bumped into a friend i literally met on our first day of school. She was always my best friend.. She however chose skinnier, more 'popular' girls for her best friends. Even though they let her down time and time again. Now, 35 yrs on, after seeing her again for the first time in over 10yrs, i'm not surprised somehow she's not called the number on the card i gave her 2wks ago.

Cultivate the friendships you do have. It's truly a rich person that can say they have any more than one good friend.

groundhogs · 31/01/2010 23:31

sorry, i meant don't let the idiotic women ruin your entire social life.

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