signs someone fancies you ??

[setmefreenow]

as opposed to just liking you...

if you think they do, they normally do!!!

whats' the sitch op, give us the lowdown!

errr..............nope sorry.
I married the first person who seemed remotely interested in me!

Only one bloke's ever shown an interst in me. It manifested in staring intently at the table and saying not a word through fear (we were teenagers). He shrugged once or twice. We sat there, on a date, for about an hour and a half. He said approximately 3 words. I got up to leave and he blurted out 'I really like you'. I sat back down. He said approximately 7 words in the next hour.

11 years later we're married with a child but you'd have been forgiven for thinking he fancied the table.

a friend..who i may now fancy and losing my ability to tell the difference between friendly behaviour and fancying behaviour

Laughs at your crap jokes, looks at your mouth, doesn't change the subject when you fondle his groin.

Calls/txts/emails you more often than normal.
Holds eye contact for longer than normal.
Flirts with you.
Touches you.

Just straddle him in a non-ironic way. It will go one of two ways.

ooh no it's me looking at his mouth..could be pretty obvious lol!
calls yes
eye contact yes
touches no but stands close
attentive

Mirror image of your body language
Pupils dilated (hard to tell on dark brown eyes)
Makes an effort to talk to you
awkward smile - this is a biggie, they don't want to give a too cheesy smile

oh not ooh

Pulls your pigtails then runs away.

But in all seriousness, usually alot of eye contact, "touching" like your arm for example, and generally being on his best behaviour and being very attentive and interested in everything you say.
Unless the bloke is really shy and then he'll probably stare at the floor and mumble!

effort to talk to me yes
always there yes
mirror image that would be me

must try not to be so obvious lol

he'll dribble a bit when you accidentally take off your clothes.

lot of attention ,saying my name a lot yes
best behaviour def yes

touching no but feels all the time as if he will

look at his feet. If they are pointed towards you, he's interested in you (though not necessarily sexually of course).

I think in your situation you need to start making some little moves, like touching his hand etc prolonged eye contact. see how he reacts to that.

yes i am interested in him but not necessarily sexually,just interested and in a mouth fixated sort of way

don't feel i can touch his hand maybe his arm but haven't been able to so far

are you thinking of having an affair? just asking because of your nickname

What kind of socialising have you been doing? Are you going out together just the two of you? If so - is this drinks or dinner? Or drinks that turn into dinner (which isn't as far along as just planning dinner iyswim)

not exactly..going through a divorce

the setmefree is from my marriage..he is single..he doesn't know i am divorcing he thinks i am married

shall i wait and see if he touches me on the arm etc this week or suggests some sort of time together then?

does he know you were having problems in your marriage?

no