Apologise for the name change.
Since christmas, DP has been acting in the following way:
Overly protective, won't let me walk down to the shop or take DS to cubs on my own.
Needs the car for work, even though it ends up just sitting in the car park all day when I could be using it to get from a - b
Protective over his own phone. Keeps it on silent, takes it everywhere with him and when I nosied on it, has deleted all texts. There was however, the call history which shows a number of calls to "unknown number" being made at times when I wouldn't be around.
His internet history told me he'd been on dating sites. In the history was also specific searches he'd done and profiles he'd looked at. When challanged, he said he was searching it to make sure I hadn't joined up!!??
Last night, my phone buzzed to say I had a text. I couldn't find it though so just said "I'll get it later" (knowing it was probably a text from DS upstairs saying goodnight ). Anyway he insisted I search for it ... then accussed me of being secretive and said I was obviously up to something
He's distant, just sits there in a mood all night saying he's "tired".
This one is a wierd one ... a letter came for him with a bill for national insurance contributions with a note on the bottom saying "if you are no longer self employed ... " etc!! since when HAS he been self employed?? as far as I knew, he worked for Tesco!!
The letter has since dissapeared and he insists it was just an annual NI info letter