My mate is in the process of breaking up with his dp. It?s a bit of a messy breakup. As hes like one of my best mates Ive been there for him, and hes stayed at my house one night. But now Im sort of being brought up into the arguments, she thinks hes spending too much time with me. We?re going into London together with dd on Friday as I wanna take her to London aquarium but need someone to go with me as I don?t think I can cope with the pram, dd and escalators and stairs! He emailed me a conversation between them (via Email) and I can totally understand her POV. She is a nice person and did help me when I broke up with xdp. Theyre as bad as one another. He wants to be with her but cant be with her iykwim. Hes still at their flat, he cant afford to move out at the moment and he doesn?t have family round here. I feel guilty that she might think I?m trying to get my claws into him sort of speak. I have her number, and I have thought of ringing her, but I think I?ll just make matters worst. Plus what can I do for my mate? Or should I just do nothing at all? I?ve spoken to him probably every day this week, and he just rings to have a moan about her. Is it really bad of me that its getting on my nerves slightly? I do feel bad for saying that cos he was there for me when I broke up with xdp and so I wanna do the same for him, but I don?t wanna have him think he has to turn to me all the time. His other best mates that he would talk to are on holiday.