online dating - this is a red flag isnt it?

[meanbean123]

regular but have namechanged.

I joined match.com. Chatted to a guy for a few days. He asked me to the cinema. i said yes. we swapped mobile numbers.
Now he just keeps texting me or emailing me, like all the time. Its doing my head in. Saying things like he was having withdrawl symptoms from me... ( YUK)
I just logged on and hes sent me an email asking if i have many other dates lined up, but not because hes jealous.

I should run shouldnt i?

run very fast

keep going til you reach hills....

yep, thought so. Hes also found me on facebook, but i told him i wasnt going to add him. AND hes given me a nickname.

YUK YUK YUK

Cor blimey he's a bit keen!

Run!!

yeah, and when i gave him my reasons for not adding him to facebook. he was all, like, ill qestion you further about that when i know you'

er no, you wont!

oh god, and he was asking where i lived and worked. Luckily i told him nothing. He has my mobile number, but i can just ignore that.

Run! Fast!

Wow, scary bloke!!

Don't let him near the bunny...

Ah, match.com ... the prime vehicle for obsessiveness and myriad projections. If he's like this now, you don't even want to think about the aftermath when reality starts intruding on his little fantasy. Run. Run a mile!!!

(And this from someone who is married to a man she met on match.)

gosh, far too full on an not in a good way

bin immediately

Run.
Join the Couch to 5k thread for pointers.

Don't even stop to collect belongings, just RUN!

Sorry - but why is that so wierd?? Perhaps he just really likes you?? I mean, you could always try to communicate with him. Thank God I am not a man - what a nightmare it must be. Whatever they do, it is seen as a sign that they are wierd, or pervy or something.

Just talk to him - not a bunch of idiotic strangers on the internet.....just communicate with him, you can then find out where he is coming from.

Perhaps he has good taste - ie: he likes you? Or does that make him a saddo...

Christ - it's better than him ignoring you, or telling you that you look like a bat from hell, or that he only wants to see you because he fancies your mother, or, worse, your brother....

idiotic strangers ?

< worries that potty knows me in RL >