how can i do this? please help

[LesbianMummy1]

please give me some advice on how to get mty dp to leave she has been emotionally abusive for over a year and i just can't take anymore any feelings i had for her are long gone and whenever she can't get her own way she hurls abuse at me i know the kids love her but i need her to go to make their lives easier as we all end up treading on egg shells all the time and they must feel it to dd who's 8 makes comments like i wish you would just stop arguing but whatever i do is wrong and i am constantly backed into a corner the insults are getting nastier by the day and i can't cope anymore

not sure how assetts would be divided up in your situation, but i would go to a solicitor, get the facts and sell up and fuck off with the kids. lifes too short

Sometimes You just have to go. WHose house is it, could you give her the boot?

we rent house it's only in my name but she refuses to go and if i leave i am making myself homeless so won't be rehoused

You could see a family law solicitor.

Apparently there's one who writes a lot for Diva who is particularly good. Maybe try looking through back-issues and finding who she is?

if the house is in your name, you can have her removed. Go see your housing officer - or if it is private rented or you want further advice goodle shelter england and give them a ring and ask about the legalities regarding your situation.

my feeling is that she could be removed by the police.

Custardo's advice sounds more cost-effective.

She's right about life being too short, too.

thank you for replies