Has *that* thread gone now?

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The extended wanking one. It was really disturbing & I wonder if it has been deleted

keh??

what have i missed! lol

Yeah. You mean the sex toy for boys thread? Oops, did I post that?

What happened to get it deleted? it was hilarious

Ha - notice you'd saved the link!!

Talking of toys for boys, did anyone see that Beeb documentary on the profits of the porn industry where they showed some company developing the latest hardware for use with cam-girl sites? It was a mouse that was like a sort of soft rubbery sleeve that had a warm, damp sensation inside....you don't know whether to admire the innovation or cry for the human race...

Hmm, I also wondered why that thread was deleted. I thought maybe the OP didn't want her husband to read it as she said that he was known to lurk on MN.

Ahah! I have been trying to remember the name of that site all night...I just knew someone would post it again. Hurrah.

/continues pervy research...

I am convinced it was posted by our Extended wanky troll actually- I imagine he whiles away the hours very happily concocting threads on MN with a butt plug up his jacksie. Kinda makes sense to me...

I asked for it to be deleted because I posted it to genuinely ask for advice on how to deal with the situation. I got that advice and acted on it. I felt that after I'd posted what I was going to do etc, the post descended into mild anarchy... If DH had seen that thread, it would have undone the hours of talking we'd been through, and probably removed what little self esteem he has left now.

Me and DH have had a LOT of discussion on the matter - it has been the lowest point of our relationship. We now have boundaries and core values in place because of this, and it is a place for us to work up from, but it will take a long time for the trust to build up.

Thanks to those of you who gave genuine advice without prejudice, it was very much appreciated. To the rest of you - well I hope you had fun.

It will be really hard for your dh to recover from his addiction.

Make sure you get rid of the toy or he may just try to hide it better.

and good luck

nasty tone again there sidewinder
not doing you any favours at all
glad that after quite a lengthy relationship and 2 dc's you now have 'boundaries and core values in place'

SORRY sidelined not sidewinder

sidelined I'm glad you have managed to talk

Ignore the snideiness

Good luck

Low self esteem??

What morningpaper said

Glad you have spoken Sidelined. Didn't mean to imply that your problem was hilarious - just some of the blogs on that site. I hope you get it sorted.

To be fair, the OP was so bizarre and then everytime you got a comment you didn't like
you changed the goal posts so it didn't sound quite so nasty and disturbing.

Asking for advice on the product forum wasn't the brightest move either, they are obviously a group of sad wankers on there, most of it was fantasist wank fodder.

I hope he has agreed to get help for his addictions.

Does anyone else think that Dittany should join the aneros forum and ask the super-wankers some probing questions?

That would be fun!

Malificence - YES!!

But seriously, sidelined, from reading some of the posts on that forum, you could see how addicted people were to what they were doing, to the exclusion, it seemed of all else in their lives.

I'm glad you're dealing with the situation before it gets totally out of control.

I actually hadn't realised how bad the problem is with this daft toy till I read some things on the website and thought wow! It seems there is a big addictive thing going on with it, each person seemingly completely self obsessed and competing for the most outlandish and epic Super-O.

OP, I did have a giggle and I did think the post was very weird but I do hope that you can get some help because this particular toy (like most addictive things) doesn't sound like it can fit into a normal healthy relationship easily.

Sincere good luck.

ROFL. I think the place he was hiding it was just fine

whoahhhhhhh....clicked on the link. hope DH doesnt check history.

lol @ vicar

I have to clear the history every single day...