Thats it really ...I think maybe just maybe I am starting to let go of the anger and bitterness that has just about consumed me for the last 3 and a half years
I still have moments of utter anger and resentment, and as I will continue to have to deal with XH I probably always will!
But I have started this year with an odd sense of happiness and contentment I signed my absolute papers before xmas, and am hoping all the financial shite will be sorted in the next 6 months or so (or so my expensive solicitor says )!
My relationship with DD1 is strong and so much better, and both of us are happier and calmer (we has some group counselling together), DD2 is growing into a wonderful cheeky little girl
I have been having an on off relationship with a nice man, and even though I dont think it has a future, there is none of the dysfunctional, abusive, codependant crap that I had for so long with XH, I know now very strongly what I want...or not ;)
MN has been a godsend for me, and for those just starting this journey, it does finally get better, it really does just take time