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Mediation

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mmrred · 01/01/2010 21:39

Not sure if this is the right place for this, but does anyone have any advice about arranging mediation? I've googled it but am overwhelmed by the variety and don't know how to make a good choice...also does it cost a fortune?

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EldritchCleaver · 02/01/2010 13:46

It very much depends what kind of mediation you mean.

If it is with neighbours, for example, over noise/nuisance etc your local authority may well have a scheme that you could use that should not be expensive and may even be free.

For family mediation/divorce then a solicitor could arrange it or do it, or social services might be able to help. Any campaigning group or charity in the field might have information.

For any other kind of legal or commercial dispute, a solicitor is again the best first port of call to find someone good in your price range with experience of the area in question. The cost varies very widely, with a CEDR-accredited mediator probably being the most expensive (see their website for more information).

Many solicitors and barristers do mediation and most will do it for a set fee you and the other party would share. It can often take place in their own offices or your lawyer's office, saving the cost of hiring somewhere.

For any dispute I would recommend using someone who is a trained mediator and has good, relevant, experience.

mmrred · 02/01/2010 16:07

Thank you - it is family mediation we're after. My DH has already been through the court process and has a defined contact order for time with his son.

However, there are issues about holiday contact that he would like to try and resolve (not least because my DSS is asking us to) without going back to court.

We couldn't afford to pay a solicitor during the court case (which went on for 5 years) and the Cafcass Officer organised some mediation but that was a disaster.

Will try FNF - any other charities I should look at?

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AnAuntieNotAMum · 02/01/2010 17:00

Friend of mine found a mediator through this site

www.collegeofmediators.co.uk

mmrred · 02/01/2010 19:46

Thank you - have found two possibles on there.

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sadperson123 · 02/01/2010 21:20

Hi

I went to see a solicitor back in October to ask for some advice on seperating from my H, and she suggested mediation, as it's cheaper.

She said that it would around the £150 - £200 mark (I think that may have been plus VAT), so I haven't gone down that route.

We are now trying relate, and I know that they also offer mediation and I'm sure that it would be cheaper than one offered by a solicitor.

Hope that helps and that you sort things out.

mmrred · 02/01/2010 21:42

Hadn't thought of Relate - thank you.

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