viafem (ovarisine poticula) any views?

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Hi - have namechanged as am a regular and people know me...Wanted to get something to help me orgasm, because I can only orgasm manaully and it would please DH massively if I could orgasm thru sex blush] Very embarrassed in Superdrug today as it seemed in the High Street I saw everybody I knew..
Anyway, bought this stiff - herbal pill so have no real belief it will be effective, but as aleasy MN is my first port of call for advice - any view positve or negative welcome...

OMG- a herbal pill that gives you vaginal orgasms.Whatever next.

You would be better off googling the female orgasm- and find that very few women come through penetration. Those who do might also come by having their clitorises rubbed by the man's pubic bone etc at the same time- so they think it's through penetration alone but is not in fact.

No doubt others will come long and say differently but do google and you will find loads.

I'd through the pill down the loo, TBH.

sorry- throw, not through.

I assume by "manually" you mean with DH's manuals, (!) and not just your own, on your own.

I am taking over this thread...
have googled Viafem- it is not what you seem to think it is anyway- itis marketed as being an alternative to Viagra and is described as helping with arousal and lubrication.

What a load of twaddle- all women know that what we need is an attentive partner who knows what buttons to press, who we fancy, to be relaxed- a drop of the old vino might help- and a relaxed setting.

If you need lube, buy lube- but not this rubbish. Sorry.

Have you tried toys? There are all sorts of fab new ones these days. Bear in mind that very few women orgasm through vaginal penetration only - there are not very many nerve endings in there, and orgasming from fucking is usually down to you being in a position where your clit is getting extra stimulation from his pubic bone or something.
However, there are toys now that can be worn during penetration and make things kind of interesting.

Many thanks all - esp PP - Of course I should have googled myself but MN is always now my first port of call on any important topic
Never have or had any probelm ith the arousal, lubrication, enjoyment , satfsfaction or indeed orgasm, but we have got into the habit of uitlitarian sex in one conveneint position, lying on side where I manaully stuimulate myself. Now we are trying to have more 'courtship, and very much enjoying it, so I thought I would try to chnge the habit of a lifetime ( well - many years - but I guess we just need to practice more...

Get on top and find a good angle for either g-spot stimulation or clit stim, for g-spot I find that more upright works best, for clitoral then push your legs/knees back and down so you are in more contact with him and GRIND with a belly dancing rolling motion, he will appreciate it and so will you, I can have multiples like this, especially when DH holds my hips firmly and thrusts upwards.
Vielle lube is good stuff, tis quite "stimulating". A cock ring with a bullet vibe is also nice.
Basically, use his body to get you off, he won't be complaining. Find your own pace and rhythm, sometimes if he "helps" it can put me off my stride, as it were. The more you let go and just enjoy the sensations, the more likely you are to orgasm, trying too hard is a surefire way not to.

Mal - thanks - will start practising tonite (too drunk last night afer NYE party...)

I am with pp on this

don't waste your money on pills

teach your partner some better techniques and get experimenting with toys

and stop thinking that the vaginal orgasm is some sort of nirvana, it isn't, if your partner thinks it is you need to educate him too

I have only ever had about 3 in my life (and I am quite old )

Actually Im of the opposing opinion, I think if the pill will help with lubrication, orgazm strength etc, then why NOT try it? talkin from experience have taken my first one tonight, coz am sick to death of being dry and not in a sex mood (viafem is also an aphrodisiac so gets you IN the mood for sex) its alright for women with a good sex drive and good lubrication to go on about how fab their sex drive /sex life is, thats just a kind of put-down to those of us females who arent so lucky in the sexdrive department. such as myself. So I figure, each to their own, and Im darnwell trying it LOL - p.s. if it does absolutely ZILCH for me tho, then BOY am I gonna let you all know. lol !!!

VIAFEM PROGRESS UPDATE...(lol) yep, i hav to turn myself on to BE turned on..BUT when i was turned on..BOY it was good. v wet still, had at LEAST 15 orgazmz , maybe 18, could easily have more..still all sensitive..now thats the difference, usually i have around 5 and stop. so basically..it makes you wanna climax way more individual times than you would normally; so yes, it WOULD be good to take on a date night if your worried the guy wont turn u on enough.
(Im a single mum, not yet found Mr.Right u see)
NOTE: ‎(as long as u remember gals..take a paracetamol/ibuprofen headache pill first, coz initially u do get a headache at the front of your head above the eyes? which is uncomfy)! x

Spamerific.
Orgazmz?