DH and i went out for a drink and he got very drunk. I was a little drunk but still had my wits about me IYSWIM? Anyway, when i got in, my laptop didn't work, so i took it upstairs to where Dh was sat and asked him to fix it. He playfully pushed me onto the bed and proceeded to fondle me. I didn't want this to happen and a struggle ensued. He was still thinking he was being playful, at least initially. I tried to laugh and manage the situation in the best way to ensure that nothing went so far as to have no return. The whole tone descended as i became upset and i struggled. Eventually he let me go. This morning i had bruises all along my arms and legs and stomach. I feel like i have just taken a spin class lol. It's that kind of ache in my legs and its uncomfortable to walk. I know there have been a lot of these threads recently. I'm sorry that i have to add to the number. The disturbing thing is how we have both accepted the incident and moved on with the little things that make up the day. He apologised. 'Incidents' have pepperpotted our marriage. Not quite the same as the one described, but there have been explosive arguments, drunken threats etc. Thank you for reading. I am not quite sure what i want of you, but i thought i would write it down becuase i know it's not normal despite how we have conducted ourselves since.