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Long overdue, orangelampshade is too polite

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orangelampshade · 28/12/2009 01:40

The weirdo dumped me before I had a chance to do or say anything!

Them that don't know - suffice to say: he was ODD

Them that do know: How mad am I? about two months ago (sorry for time lapse) the fucker dumped me!

Thank god.

I have been absorbed in a lovliness of an oasis of being wihout him!

Thank you everyone: cocolepew, anyfucker, mailficience even, mamazon, mgpie (from memory, there were LOADS), thank you one and all!

Thank you everyone! Am overseas and hopefully not as pissed as I sound right now! (probably am actually..oh dear)

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orangelampshade · 28/12/2009 01:55

'months'? shizer, I mean WEEKS!

The man (use the term loosely) finished with me two weeks ago!

FUCK! (or not)

(am very clearly pissed, must step away from the computer).....

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BitOfFunWithRudolph · 28/12/2009 01:59

On what grounds? Did you say "Golly, that's a shame"?

FluffyForLifeNotJustForXmas · 28/12/2009 02:00

I remember your thread. I have an 'ex' like this, he ended it too, I had the 'you are really wonderful, I don't think I can be in a relationship with you because I'm not sure if I'm staying here and I don't want to loose you if I leave' speech, followed by him admitting he sucked his thumb and liked being nestled on breasts, he was ill alot aswell, posts lots of updates on FB saying how he needs a cuddle/someone to snuggle up with etc. The poor thing he's about to dump (and me) have both had a lucky escape!!

You are free now dear, go and find yourself a real man!

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orangelampshade · 28/12/2009 02:07

Oh god

here goes: He said: 'I don't want to see you anymore'

This came after, straight after we went on a works night out with all his work people (I won't use the term 'friends' as he told me that they all hated him... lolooong story, I am now free of)

He told me that they were all 'looking at me because I looked "too interesting"'

He was envious, what a shithead!

Way too weird for me

bless ya Bof and Fluffy, what you doing up this late?

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FluffyForLifeNotJustForXmas · 28/12/2009 02:10

I'm enjoying the peace and quiet as ds is fast asleep!

You are free dear, there's plenty of hot men out there. This lad needs a nurse maid.

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orangelampshade · 28/12/2009 02:13

Fluffy - I remember your thread too! Games work shop man yours was?

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orangelampshade · 28/12/2009 02:14

Wish I knew where the hot men are!

Hope you're ok too

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FluffyForLifeNotJustForXmas · 28/12/2009 02:16

Haa, yes.

I should have known better then to date someone that worked in a toy shop!

Hot men? I'm still looking.

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orangelampshade · 28/12/2009 02:19

I remember you because mine pained dragons and suchlike and kept them all in a hand built cabinet I wasn't allowed to touch

I remember your thread

Hope you and your ds had a good christmas, fluffy

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FluffyForLifeNotJustForXmas · 28/12/2009 02:20

Thanks. It was nice and quiet.

There seems to be a link here, the games shop, playing with toys, behaving like little children, the need for a mother figure....hmmm. Interesting.

FluffyForLifeNotJustForXmas · 28/12/2009 02:22

Did he end it before you gave him a christmas present? You should still have time to return it and get yourself something nice

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orangelampshade · 28/12/2009 02:28

Glad to hear you and ds had a nice xmas, sometimes quiet ones are the best ones

present-wise..we will never know as he finished with me about a week before the big day, I wonder what he was going to get me?

I had got him something 'grown up' but I managed to return it (from a big deprtment store) and I got other stuff for other people instead.

Not heard a peep out of him since

Oddball that he is, I will never work him out

Remains to say: where are all the good men?!

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FluffyForLifeNotJustForXmas · 28/12/2009 02:32

There's a few threads on her about this topic. They are there, somewhere. I want a Mr Darcey, strong, passionate... (sigh)

You've learned alot through this child, you know what you don't want from a relationship. Use it to grow, every experience makes you better, this is what I tell myself.

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orangelampshade · 28/12/2009 02:36

(anyone about to have a go: I hadn't seen him for about three weeks, but he said he had got me a (unasked for) 'big and lovely' xmas present

and so I got him one in return to post off to him

(can hear already the scintillating derision from certain MNtters)

Well, now we'll never know

(mercifully)

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orangelampshade · 28/12/2009 02:41

Tell you what Fluffy

The best advice I got(can't remember who said it, but it was great)

asked if I'm 'recalibrating my expectations' of a man

Can't tell you how apt this is

Somehow I got locked into a shit relationship with a boy-man-attention-seeker and oh god, I have learned SO MUCH!

You're right that every experience makes you better - I hope you find a good un fluff x

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WhatFuckingYearIsItThen · 28/12/2009 12:55

< pops onto this thread incognito >

orange, great news !!

'tis AF, by the way but I am currently banned from posting on the relationships thread, so don't dob me in

you will find a real man, not a baby, don't you worry

FabHasHadALovelyXmas · 28/12/2009 13:17

Are you really banned or have you banned yourself?

WhatFuckingYearIsItThen · 28/12/2009 13:32

banned meself

but this one is ok, cos it's good news

FabHasHadALovelyXmas · 28/12/2009 17:23

Get over to chat and help out Flame.

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