he was watching the simpsons

[plumtomatoes]

while trying to get me in the mood.... (tmi maybe, but he undressed me and had fingers inside me, when he was watching the television)

regular here, if I used my ususal name, you'd tell me in no uncertain terms, however, but, come on - he was keeping an eye on the telly....

WTF? six months in, doesnt bode well huh?

dumo him now and be done with, he sounds like a twit.
But on a good note, least he can multi task

um,no! actually stopped (so sorry, tmi: fingers poised) to Watch the television.

No multitasking.... that's what made me stop and look

I have to ask, did it work? Him getting you in the mood. Not good.

In a word: NO! we had a row, and I was there saying: "but you were watching the simpsons"

Totally ridiculous

(I feel deep shame about posting this, but I cannot tell anyone else)

YANBU. Twit. Give him another chance if you think the relationship is worth it, but tell him how much it annoyed/ upset you. Then if he does it again (or something similar), give him the elbow.

The relationship isn't worth it, he is lazy in all areas: lazy in deciding where to go out: 'oh you decide' is what I get all the time

lazy at home: 'can you bring round a dvd'

lazy in bed

I haven't been out with a man in 2 years,I was so grateful of any attention, but I feel it's all wrong, just typing this out, makes the answer make sense in my head..

he's never paid me a compliment either

shithead

I think our argument is final, I am already thinking that I am free of him

Don't know why I'm typing this, I think I just need to get it out, as I said, I can't tell ant RL people - to all intents, I lead a nice, happy life....

Plum, you are well out of it. If you are feeling like this about him at this early stage - there's no point in staying in this relationship. You'll find someone worthy of your love, time, energy... move on x

I hear you!

Ive been thinking the same thoughts too, just been squashing them down because I was so happy to have a boyfriend after so long, but quite quickly, I thought I was better off alone

so tired of being alone

better off without this man but, so I'm so tired of being alone

(no answer to that, I know)

thank you to all who read and replied!

ah, good luck. You've reached the right decision, and you know it.

thank you all!

(back to the sodding drawing board emoticon)

p.s I've always love your name Minky