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ohhhhh I just really, really, strongly dislike my SIL

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Thomcat · 27/06/2005 21:21

Polite title but what I really want to say - aggggggghhhhhhhhhh, the woman is a wanker!

She deigned to grace us with her presence at the weekend at a family wedding, where she proceeded to totlly blank me until I was standing right next to her and said, pointedly 'hello X' and she said hello back then just turned away. That was the only thing she sadi all day. I've never, ever really spoken to her as she seems to have a problem with the entire family and has to get drunk to cope even though she's witty, inteligent etc. I don't know what it is with her. Everyone in family thinks it's personal to them but I'm the only one she totally ignores. I could have kicked her, very hard for being so bloody pathetic and just.... ugggghhhhh. Rather than it not bother me, as in the past, I just want to have it out with her, can't and won't but keep having imaginery 'talks' with her.
Anyway, just needed to vent it here as nowhee else I can do it really.

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Marina · 28/06/2005 10:51

Oh don't buy her any meats TC, you'd regret it sometime in the future (however tempting and deserved )

jessicasmummy · 28/06/2005 10:53

TC - re xmas, we dont buy for each other, we buy for kids only! Cheap nasty unthoughtof presents are the way ahead!

Twiglett · 28/06/2005 10:54

Dear SIL

I could probably put this down to my hormonal state being pregnant but I just wanted to let you know how saddened I was that you seem to ignore me, and other family members, at family events.

From what I perceive you seem incredibly intelligent and witty and if we met under other circumstances I think we could be friends.

I wonder whether there was anything I have done that makes you uncomfortable with me personally, or even whether there is any way that we could become friendly acquaintances, if not friends for the sake of the rest of our family and future generations.

With regards

Thomcat

PS stop being such a bitch

handlemecarefully · 28/06/2005 10:56

So, what does your dh think about her behaviour?

Chandra · 28/06/2005 11:02

Twiglett if my SIL receive that letter she would focus in a single thing: that it is my problem as I'm hormonal and that I have called her bitch....

My conversations with her are limited now to her asking questions and me saying yes or no. I can not even be nice to her, if I say: "Oh you look beautiful in that dress", she answers "In this dress??? only a plain people like you would like this dress that much!" So, I better keep my mouth shut!

Thomcat · 28/06/2005 13:50

Good letter Twigglet, other than the PS I might consider sending it.
D thinks she's weird, has a problem but doesn't really go into one about it. he can't be bothered with it all and doesn't want to get into it, which is fine, fair do's.

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