Is it wierd to add DP's ex to my facebook?

[Sickoflies]

I am dying to know what the ex went through with DP and his fucking lying. I see he has just added her to his facebook yesterday. Would it be wierd for me to add her too? considering she's never met me? (but will know who I am)

yes

weird and unhealthy

My DH has just added an old school pal to his page, she is about 40 single and very large. I don't know what she thinks she is doing, I will be watching this very carefully. Facebook is a bit dangerous and I am sorry we ever got involved.

Don't react, just sit back and watch what happens.

Yes. I have my DH2Bs ex on my FB but I've met her, she's genuinely lovely and she's coming to our wedding.

I just wish I could have 10 minute chat with her :-( I just want to know I'm not going crazy and she went through it too.

no I know there is nothing going on, I don't suspect that. He lies to me constantly about money and everything else and I'm just curious if she had the same experience because I don't think I can cope with this anymore :-(

Ditch him then! How many other stunning men are there out there who won't lie

It is a bit weird if she isn't your friend and its also a bit weird that he's added her if they aren't friends too, what for?

Speaking to her will wind you up and piss off DP. Things don't sound so great between you, what do you hope to gain from speaking to her?

Her experience isn't going to help you at all, is it? This is something you and your DP need to work out.

and also on this thread you are being advised that it doesn't actually matter what you do

nothing will change the fact that he is a chronically dishonest person, you cannot trust him, he possibly has an addiction of some sort to continue to need to borrow large amounts of money etc etc etc

so, no matter what you find out from his ex, he isn't making you secure and happy and the best thing would be to kick him to the kerb

now do you want me to cut'n'paste this to your other threads ?

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