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I have fallen for my gynaecologist.

37 replies

chirpee · 20/11/2009 22:36

I had 2 operations earlier in the year and have become completely infatuated with my gynaecologist. I am very happily married with a fulfilling life so it came as a complete shock. It has turned my life upside down and the thought of not seeing him again is making me so unhappy. Has anyone else experienced anything like this and if so how did they get over it?

OP posts:
fanjolina · 20/11/2009 22:40
Biscuit
sheilatakeabow · 20/11/2009 22:43

Hmmm. Two years ago, I also fell for a man who had spent a fair bit of his time tinkering with my nether regions for money. It's a toughie...

halfcut · 20/11/2009 22:44

ಠ_ಠ

halfcut · 20/11/2009 22:44

oops ignore lol

Bunnysoprano · 20/11/2009 22:48

Book in for a smear once a week?

displayuntilbestbefore · 20/11/2009 22:50

rofl Bunnysoprano

seriously, though, OP?

warthog · 20/11/2009 22:59

hmmm must be embarrassing if you're always wet when he examines you.

WhenwillIfeelnormal · 20/11/2009 23:01

Is his name Richard/Martin/Neil by any chance?

displayuntilbestbefore · 20/11/2009 23:01

my god - there are 3 of them?

Ivykaty44 · 20/11/2009 23:02

go out the front door and peer in the letter box, sit there all day looking through. This is how your gyne ses you

beeny · 20/11/2009 23:03

Is Neil based in Yorkshire

pushmepullyou · 20/11/2009 23:11

I have quite a thing for my Yorkshire gynaecologist. Can't remember his name, but he has lovely eyes and is based in Leeds

Bunnysoprano · 20/11/2009 23:16

Try and remember his name Pushmepullyou - I am based in Manchester and don't mind travelling!

displayuntilbestbefore · 20/11/2009 23:21

You're much braver than me.
I can't even consider going to see any remotely attractive doc for anything of a more "womanly" nature. I blushed furiously when a handsome gp held my broken ankle so can't imagine what I'd be like if I had to lie under an oversized papertowel for a gorgeous gynae

SheWillBeLoved · 20/11/2009 23:46

What's that thing called when you fall in lust with somebody who has helped you a lot? As in a professional person. Like a therapist etc...

That's what first came to mind upon reading this. The second thing was that you opened your legs for him before you even went on a date - I'm sure there's nothing more he wants or needs to see! Get over it. Concentrate on your husband.

Divatheshopaholic · 20/11/2009 23:55

sorry but rofl
im due to ahve some operations coming and sadly i have lady gynaecologist. so odnt know what im missing there

whoisasking · 21/11/2009 10:14

SWBL - it's called transference.

I feel sorry for gynies actually, I mean, if I met a gorgeous man with a good sense of humour, big dick and kind eyes, the minute he told me he spent his working week rummaging around in minge, I think I'd probably call it all off.

BeehiveBaby · 21/11/2009 10:25

There is a scene in Friends where Rachel flirts with a gynae Dr who says he doesn't date much. He asks her if she gets home from work and thinks 'if I ever see another cup of coffee again, I'm going to scream?' or words to that effect....does that help?!

pushmepullyou · 21/11/2009 20:25

I think it's Martin Grifiths Jones at St James's, but I would advise caution as he is just too gorgeous to discuss endometrial symptoms with I have found .

MavisEnderby · 21/11/2009 20:32

Oh goodness I am ROFL at this thread (Sorry,op).It reminds me of a recent bizarre convo with the new junior doc on our ward who was telling us about his last placement which was on Gynae."I never thought I would say this" he told us during a rare quiet moment on nights "But I got really fed up with peering at womens fanjos".He then went on to declare "It got to the stage I could almost guess waht a woman's fanjo would look like just by looking at her face" (WTF?)

Myself and colleagues exchanged many glances and I will now remain on the matter.

Juillet · 21/11/2009 20:36

Oh God I fancy my GP.

Sadly he is happily married but still...Oh what I would give for a proper conversation in a coffee shop rather than a swift exchange in a surgery..

SausageRocket · 21/11/2009 20:53
YanknCock · 21/11/2009 20:57

'rummaging around in minge'

boyraiser · 21/11/2009 21:00

Hysterical.

MollieO · 21/11/2009 21:03

I once had the most gorgeous A&E doctor fit a catheter. I was completely and utterly mortified.

Some years ago I used to have a very handsome Bulgarian cleaner who was taking a year off from his studies to be a gynaecologist to improve his English. Quite a few of my neighbours developed a need for his cleaning services!