I'm getting fed up with DP constantly moaning. Every morning he wakes up with "oh, I feel crap this morning." Every night when he gets in from work I get "Oh, I felt so crap at work today" and then once it hits 9pm I get "Oh, I don't think I'll be stopping up much later, I'm so tired and I feel a bit crap".
It wouldn't be so bad if it was every now and again but its every night and on weekends.
The other night I came home at 8.30pm after just passing a very gruelling physical exam, one which I'd been extremely nervous and worried about for weeks and as soon as I start talking to him about it he cut me off mid-sentance with "...yeah ... I feel a bit crap actually, I'm not in a very talkative mood ... don't take it personally"
He does work full time but not huge hours, only 8 a day like everyone else. Some nights I come back from gym to find the bed all messed up ... he's jumped into bed as soon as I've gone out. It's so off-putting, I feel like I'm living with a pensioner.