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So, we are going our seperate ways - I am 30 weeks pg with a 17mo dd...

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mama2moo · 19/11/2009 20:34

And Im devastated.

I am the one who started the 'discussions' and now Im the one who doenst want to split.

We have been together for 6 years, not all great times but mostly. We split in March for a month or so but got back together and then I concived dc2.

I dont want to be a single mum of 2 kids. I hate the thought that he can go out and drink all of this away and I cant.

Where do I go from here? He cant afford to move out yet so will be living her for a while. I cant stop crying while he is fine and seems happy.

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poshsinglemum · 19/11/2009 20:45

Is he drinking heavily? If so you are probably best off out of there. Believe me, he will be gutted too.

It is so hard. I know it is devastating. Hope you feel better soon.

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mama2moo · 19/11/2009 20:46

He hasnt been out drinking yet! Im expecting him to start going out and to his friends house though.

Thank you.

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