Oh and I are not having a good time at the mo. There are alot of issues between us. He is very ambicious, works away in the week while I stay home and look after the kids. He thinks I do nothing all day and barely pays an interest in what I do. He always talks about himself, saying I dont do anything with my life which is why he doesnt ask me. I have now put up barriers and dont want to talk to him. He talks to me like im a piece of sh*t and I feel he has no respect for me.
I know this is only my side of the story and I have my own faults too. I dont ask him about his job and pay little interest in what he is doing, this is mainly because all I hear about is his job. I am also on Anti D's because I get quite down.
We spoke this afternoon and I told him lots of things about how I feel, why im off sex etc etc but im not sure he gets it. I have said I want us to see a counsellor but he doesnt want to.
We have now agreed to see one after xmas if things dont improve but I have explained to him that we both have to make a huge effort with each other. I would feel alot happier talking with a counsellor there as he wont be able to talk me down or talk over me then and maybe I would be able to get my points across but I worry where we would start and how emotional it would be.
Thanks for reading.