My dp 'told me' on tuesday evening that he was going to a bbq at his friends house on saturday afternoon and will probably go on til the early hours this upset me as he is always going to parties or celebrations without me! i get on well with his boss' wife Linda and this bbq on saturday is at a friend from works house - so i dont know him and dp says its a 'lad' thing anyway - which is fine but Linda has said since then that she and her husband are going and everyone at dp's work is going and taking there partners/wife so why is it that i dont get to go?? he has done this sooo many times before he even ditched me last minute on new years eve a couple of years ago saying i was making him go out partying when he didnt want to and he left me on my own on new years i then found out 2 days later that he went straight out with his friend Rich to a girl we both knows new years party - i didnt even know about this party let alone get invited - i felt so angry and sad about it!! i still do! did my friend think i knew and just didnt bother going? he must be ashamed of being with me or something! i dont know how to getto the bottom of this! my other friend and her dp have just been here and he said he would never go anywhere without michelle being with him! - so why does my dp do it - all the time?? is it me??? im so depressed about it! sorry for such a long one - just really need some help with this, what do i do?? xxx