me and dp were due to get married on 29th oct but after a call from my mum saying my new bil and bro and sil wont be able to come, i have decided we need to bring it forward till when they can come, for some background i have moved to devon away from all my family, most of the guests cant come cos of the distance,dp wont get married anywhere else so my family dont have so far to come, and so his that live 10 mins away wont have to leave their horses for too long. i told him and he aint happy at all, i rang registry office and only time on day that is good for everyone is 9.30, so i called to ask if this was ok and he went off in one saying he has no say anyway, he dont know what the rush is, and it aint his prob if they cant come, he is waiting for his absolute which should be here by next week. i have been in tears at the thought of family not being there, i dont know what i need to do to get married as i thought i had loads of time, and now i feel i really dont wanna do it at all cos he is such a di**head over something so petty. he has been married b4 and this is my special day and i want it to be perfect.i have my dress, shoes, veil, tiara, and bridesmaids dresses, mum has almost done flowers so i dont see the problem.