Hope you don't mind a bloke's input here. DW fancies the lead singers of Aerosmith & Whitesnake - can't even bring myself to write their names - who, obviously have long hair and live fast and loose. Whereas her dh has very short hair and is generally elbow deep in nappies all day, can no longer hold his drink never mind chase the dragon, and has the most moisturised hands this side of the Neutrogena factory. I, on the other hand, only allow women onto my list who fulfil the criteria that led me to dw in the first place - like beautiful long dark hair for example. They could be clones of her - Rachel de Thame, the "preppie brunette" off SITC, Nigella. What does that say about our relationship?
Oh and Linda Evangelista, but that's different.