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I feel like he has no respect for me at all

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CharlieRed · 20/09/2009 17:47

I feel really upset tonight. I've come to the conclusion that my so called partner doesn't give a shit about me. I'm just here as a trophy girlfriend.

It kind of started last night, he had a go at me about wearing pyjamas in bed and said I should sleep naked. I said I was cold so he said "you can keep your bottoms on if you want, just not the top" so I said "I'll keep all of it on if I want to, I'm cold" so he turned away from me and refused to hug me like he normally does.

I said basically the only time he shows me any affection is when he wants a shag.

Anyway, things were not too bad today but tonight he went and ate his dinner in the garden, his DS followed and they left me sat in on my own.

And earlier, at the leisure centre he walked through a door and just let it go in my face.

I feel really pissed off. He doesn't see that he's doing anything wrong and thinks I'm over-exagurating and over-reacting but I'm not, am I?

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themildmanneredjanitor · 20/09/2009 17:53

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OrangeFish · 20/09/2009 17:57

I would be wearing my pink fleece pyjamas, accessorised with a chastity belt, for weeks to teach him a lesson: That he should never take for granted what is obviously a concession on your part.

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diddl · 20/09/2009 19:32

Ye gods!

It´s not that difficult to remove a pair of PJs if necessary!!

dippymummyto2boys · 20/09/2009 22:16

I have to admit to asking DH to sleep naked and would possibly think he was being a little odd with me if he refused to

caramelwaffle · 21/09/2009 10:43

You are not overreacting.
Him letting the door slam in your face makes him sound a little bit of a twat to be honest.

SolidGoldBrass · 21/09/2009 12:18

You're not over-reacting to this. He is not your boss or your owner, and your wishes matter just as much as his. What are his good points?

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