getting really fedup as DH never wants sex w ith me anymore. Says he is too wrapped up in work and doesn't even think of it. No he is not having affair, just not bothered about it anymore. He is only 46 {shock}! As a result I do no instigate anything as I am afraid of rejection. Any ideas? It doesn't help that this situation has largely been promoted by the fact I rejected him so many times when the DC were younger and he said, after a lot f rejection, he would never bother me n that way again. He has kept true to his word, more or less.