Am I too sensitive or does partner lack any delicacy

[Leka]

I am scheduled for a pregnancy termination toworrow - something I am torn up about - and my partner jokingly referred to me as "murderer." Is this out of line?

Not safe because he'll want to know what I'm doing and will read this and not let up on me about and I am soo tired I can't risk the confrontation.

If he knows it upsets you he will probably say it again to you with venom when you fight.
If you are doing this against your wishes your relationship is unlikely to survive anyway.

I am not against termination and I am not preaching at you (and I hope no-one comes on here to to that) but you mustn't go ahead if you really don't want to do it. There may be ways you can get help.

Your safety is more important than his daughters happiness right now.

Do you have someone else you could stay with?

This relationship can't last - sorry - do you want to lose your baby for nothing?

No you are not overly sensitive at all!!! That is a horrible horrible thing to say especially whenever you are in bits about the whole thing. He should be there supporting whatever decision you make not making you feel worse than you already do. He sounds like an asshole. You need all the support you can get at the minute, do you have any rl friend/family you can talk to before you make this decision. x

Tosser. Show him this thread.
Does he want you to change your mind?

There is help out there,please take it & think very hard before tomorrow.

This man is not good for you,there is always an alternative.Please leave him,get some advice from a womens refuge & think very hard before you have a termination.

Please listen to the women on here,they know what they are talking about.

(((hugs)))
Don`t go tomorrow unless you are 110% its what you want to do
Not him youknow its your choice

Oh Leka . You really need to get away from this man.

Leka, your poor poor thing. I'm not against termination by any means, but I am against termination when it's not really what the woman wants.

Why are you torn up about it?

Ignore everyone around you and think about whether you want this baby. If you do, then don't go tomorrow.

FWIW, the promise not to part the two children is not one you can seriously be expected to keep under any circumstances other than the happiest, most balanced and equal of relationships.

And wanting to kill one of his children doesn't bode well for long term fatherhood and does it really mean he wants to keep them together?

If he seriously ment it as a joke then let sleeping dogs lie.

you poor thing
the "not safe" comment is sinister - I know you have explained it, I wouldn't want DH to read my posts on here but would never describe it in those terms
Hope things go as well as can be expected today and you feel you can change your mind if it's not what YOU want

All the best today

PLEASE don`t do anything unless you are sure its what YOU want