DH has been having a hard time at work over the last couple of months, quite stressed but better now as the project he was on has finished and now he says he is just bored there.
Just got back from a holiday last week which was fine but he's been really difficult to live with ever since.
He's monosylabbic or just downright rude and snappy. Earlier in the week he threw a piece of screwed up tinfoil hard in my face, I forget why, then refused to apologise because I swore at him. The following day I tossed one of DD's (soft toy) dollies at him and told him it was time to get up. He sat up and threw it hard in my face. Didn't bother apologising when I yelped in shock.
I was very very upset. Told him that I considered it violence and that it was totally unacceptable to throw anything hard in my face. I took DD out without saying goodbye. He phoned back and told us to come home, was upset and finally apologised but still made excuses about how it was my fault for throwing the dolly in the first place (ok, obv I shouldn't have done it but I tossed it at him, I didn't throw it deliberately with full force into his face).
He has been rude and snappy all day, I keep asking him what the matter is, he won't talk to me.
I can't bear to be in the same room as him. Have told him as nicely as I can that I'm going to sit in the spare room this evening to watch something and he's got in a massive huff. I told him I don't want to sit with him because he acts as though he can't stand me, he just shrugged.
I'm fucking fed up of his childish behaviour but whenever I try to discuss it he turns it around to make it look as though I am being unreasonable so how the hell do I get through to him?