im pretty sure ive cocked my life up, and my kids. Met a guy last summer, lovely funny, happy man, we moved in together in january, and he straight away stated his strong desire to have kids, he only has one child, a son to prev relationship, and he talked alot about wanting to give him a brother or sister (altho i have 3 of my own from a prev relationship, which his son is very close to) i thought long and hard, we discussed it alot, i wanted another child, i love a big family, but thought it was all abit too fast, but we agreed and at the begining of june i got a bfp, since then he has become, quiet, moody, very very bad tempered, bites my head off over nothing, his ongoing battles with his ex-wife have got worse since she found out im pregnant, and that has made him worse, he just does nothing but sit around the house when he's not working, moaning, nagging at my kids about there bedrooms. We just had yet another row, because he thinks our house is a shit-hole and he refuses to live like a "pig in shit" its not a shit hole, im a very very clean person, not very tidy i must confess, but i make sure it is always clean, he always has a hot meal ready for him when he comes home from work. What have i done, i shouldnt have agreed to having a baby with him, i thought id got to know him so well, but obviously i didnt what should i do, i cant talk to him anymore, i cant get through to him, he just gets annoyed everytime i try and talk to him, and he walks off. i just dont know what went wrong, or why