hello. i have changed my name for this, or i could never post here again! i have a v. v. real worry about orgasms. i would rather shove hot needles in my eyes than aks anyone in rl for advice on this!
ok, here goes. Not sure if i have or havent. have experienced
mexican wave type sensation, starting at 'love button' and extending, but remaining in bits area only. is this an 'O'
nice, but i always want to carry on, if we do, then i start to feel tense, then feel sudden release of tension and relax, no mexican wave. doesnt even feel nice really but not to do it leaves be feeling unsatisfied. So is THIS an 'O'?
but then, once, had most strange feeling like something HUGE going to happen, pressure and tension and felt nice sort of, but then just went away and nothing at all - felt cheated somehow, So was THAT an 'o', in which case, ive never had one,
so when dh ask 'did you' and i say erm ???????
which of these is and what are others?
i know you going to be giggling and i must seem stupid, but affects relationship when seen to be unsatisfied or noncommittal re sex life. dh thinks i dont like or he no good. i only ever been with him. i feel stupid.