Just some advice really, am i over reacting.
my dh works away mainly mon-fri, at present in london. weekend had row so while he was outside i checked his mob. where i found video of a stripper on one of his mates. text from adult facebook and them text from ' call suzy now for ....' messages. we have been down this road with the text before. but he is obviously not getting it. i was so angry i ripped two of our wedding photos out of the frames and to shreds. he cant see whats wrong. i have trusted him and have only checked phone twice in at least last 3 years since working away. so i believe there is a lot more i dont know about. but since this has kicked off i feel sick, the thought of him watching strippers ( when hes meant to be away working) i am the one who sits at home with dd and 8 months preg. i feel i dont trust him but he brushes it off like i am making a big issue and it makes me think ( am i? ) i am now unsure whether to believe if he has cheated or not he says he hasn't - well his actual saying is ' he wouldn't want it done to him so he wouldn't do it' i now feel this statement is a load of crap and his way of saying - that i , myself, wont cheat for that reason. he comes home fri night tired, moody and wonders why i get in a mood with him. i am so angry. he will never admit cheating and his mates would cover for him, they r all single. sex life ok but hes away all week. sometimes i feel like he looks at me but thinks its not me. sex life will be none existent now as i dont want him near me. should i just forget it - its sad how one day everything seems perfect and next, not!!