Following gagamamas advise i am starting a new thred
My H left at 2am last night.
low down:
We got married just over a year ago (only celebrated anniversary 9 days ago)
I sometimes (most of the time) put on that our marriage is flawless and yes have done that on here too
He is 29 with 2 boys from a PR
We had our son 8 months ago
We are so similar yet so different and clash very easily
H has had a fair few problems in life, serving about 8 years of it in jail
He is a changed man from the man he was but still has issues
One in my opinion is that he is controlling with me
Last night i thought enough is enough after having asked him to do the dishes 'for me' and a full scale argument blowing out
It settled but after having posted on here about it and me deciding to not put up with it anymore i decided on the advice of an MNer to go out for myself for 24 hours leaving him incharged of DS. Conversation went like this;
Me - H i am gonna go out for a hour 24 hours, you can look after DS, i will not make up bottles or pre prepare meals before i go, you can do it
DH - I hope you are gonna arrange a day of work for me for that
Me - No, it'll be on a saturday or something (My dad is his employer BTW)
DH - NO!! saturday is MY TIME
Me - and when is my time?
DH - You can go anywhere you want, just jump on a bus with the waen and go!
Me - What?! That is not me time if i9 have to takeB with me!! Think about it when do I actually get ME time?
DH - AH! FUCK OFF! FUCK OF! STUPID COW!
And that is it, for the next to hours there is much heated words and H decides he will peddle his bike the 28 miles in the middle of the night to our nearest town to make sure he catches the early ferry.
He says it is because DS shouldnt see the arguing (which he defenately should) But in stead of making a concious effort to change (which he thinks he has - uh, no!) He runs off leaving me with baby (who is ill by the way)
Guess all those people were right, islandlassie has messed it all up yet again, what a loser!
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islandlassie · 23/06/2009 07:50
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