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Coming back into my life

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appleslice · 02/06/2009 09:12

Its been over a year since he walked away, now he is here in front of me smiling, laughing about old times, he asks me how I have been after all this time....

He tells me how he still loves me,misses me, waited for me to call every day, and how i never did.

Our lips touch it feels like we have never been apart,our hands touch each others bodies,taking our clothes off.

We make love,him telling me he loves me and how gorgeous I am,while silent tears are falling down my face.

I have waited for this moment dreamt of it, him wanting me again our bodies moulded as one, gosh it feels so good so right, why then oh please tell me why, in the depths on my soul I can still feel every single shread of pain twisting in my broken heart

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runforyourlife · 02/06/2009 09:52

Because being with him again will trigger both the good and bad feelings. He clearly hurt you very badly and all that old 'stuff' will come up to be 'mended'. Take it slowly, be kind to yourself and grasp the opportunity to mend it...... and try and enjoy it too because you have a possible second chance.....go slowly

mrsboogie · 02/06/2009 10:27

he walked away and then he waited for YOU to call HIM?

hmmm...

warthog · 02/06/2009 11:22

sorry, but just take it slowly to build the trust back up. he walked away the first time. what's to stop him again?

mrsdisorganised · 02/06/2009 11:33

It can be mended if thats what you want.

Takes alot of time, patience and getting to know each other again. We did it, and the first year back together was hard work but felt right, now we're better then before and have both learned alot and grown up (together from 15, split at 25, very very happy at 29!) Good luck, think carefully.

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