I have been with my partner for 2 years (not married) recently i have found text messages on his mobile phone to and from his ex wife, hers to him saying how much she loves him too, and him to her saying how he loves them all (meaning her and the kids) and how he will try and see her later. Obviously this is all going on behind my back, he always said he would tell me if he heard from her but i know he has been speaking to her alot recently without telling me as well. we have argued alot over this recently and he denies anything is going on. Am i stupid here?
The last text message that came through (he didnt tell me about again) i questioned him yet again, and all he could say its not what you think. I said explain to me then what it means, he said no. Packed his bags within 10 minuites and left me, he said i cant live with you anymore, you dont trust me. This was three weeks ago, im 29 weeks pregnant with his baby, i love him so so much even though what he has done to me. i cant stop thinking about him, and the thought of him with her is killing me. i have tried talking to him to work it out for us and the baby but all he is saying is no its over, you had your chances, you dont trust me and you never will. he doesnt want to know me anymore, or doesnt seem to care. He still wont admit anything is going on with his ex wife either. he has changed so much towards me is the last couple of weeks but i love him. What can i do?