Well I met my DP over 3 years ago. We fell in love with each other, then after a few months he decided to tell me he actually had a long-term partner, who he lived with, and her 3 kids (one 20, one 18 and one school-aged) from a previous marriage. I was furious and asked why he hadnt told me at beginning. He said because he didnt want to lose me.
He then told me he was going to leave her, that I just had to hang in there for the right time. I waited 3 whole years, dumping him frequently, but then he always begged me to get back with him and I relented.
Now, this guy, a few weeks back told me he'd moved out into a hotel because he was sick of her (his live-in partner) and we could now be together. I then found out I may be pregnant, but too early to get a test. I asked him to come stay at mine instead of his friends because I needed him. But no, he went to his friends. We had a massive argument and ended it there. We have since been in touch about the pregnancy, and I have been so up and down, because I have had 2 m/c's already and was so worried about even being pregnant. Anyway he told me he had a new job in a new borough, about 1 hrs drive away, and they had put him up in a hotel. I called him today to tell him about the negative preg result and he was like really edgy on the phone, like he couldnt say much. Then I heard her (his supposedly ex girlfriend) say 'who's that' to him. It was definately her. How can he be like this? He said he was moving out for me and now hes back there. I felt like texting him about how he is a lier and stuff in the hope she would read it, but that would just cause problems for me too. How can I get over this? Why do guys always lie?