We have three young teenage children, I have always worked, I have been back to college several times and I have a job I love.I work four and a half days a week. I run the house, pay most of the bills and see to everyone else. Hubby is a work a hollic 24/7, Ive known this for years. Over the past year I have put weight on and gone from a size 14 to a size 16, I feel fat and unatractive. But still I keep everything going..
Resently my hubby took on more work and as usual I gave him 100% of my time doing everything for him to help.
Last week I was due for a operation I was going to be sterilised but I went down with bad flu and had to cancell.
But I'm really fed up of my hubby selfishness
when I told him that I was going to cancell all he did was strug his shoulders as replied "what ever".
But the finall straw came last night he basically implied I was to big to be made loved to and made me feel totally un loved.
I have always respected my hubby and done everything that has need to be done for our family, but I have really had enough.
I feel like telling him his a crap dad who has never had time for the children, and I'm fed up of being a bladly slave, there have never been support for me and I feel like I'm going to burst. But I dont want a divorce i just want him to start treating me better and being a proper family before i start to loss it.
This relationship is so one sided.