we were getting on so well.

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this is just a rant cause im pissed off with myself.

OH has been home for a week and a half now in anticipation of the now 4 days overdue arrival of dc2. we have been getting on really well not one argument the whole time. its been lovely and then today we decide to take ds aged 3 to a family fun afternoon, i go up to get ready and while i am Oh comes in and has a funny expression on his face (bear in mind i am naked and look like a space hopper) so i ask whats up. he says nothing and smirks and leaves. and i call him back and ask again. and he tries to straighten his face and says again "nothings wrong" now he has a bit of a history of not telling me straight away if he's a bit pissed off with me or if somethings up so im a bit suspicious but leave it and he goes. then when we are about to leave he snaps at me over the dog trying to climb the fence. i really didnt imagine it btw, he snapped!! and i said, " right what the hell is wrong with you?" and he goes all huffy saying "nothings wrong its you"

so he decides he's not going with us to fun day and i say well its meant to be a family day so were all going or no-ones going so now no-ones going and he's taken ds out somewhere and im at home feeling pissed off with myself.

before he comes back and im still sitting moping, is this just my hormones?? i feel as if it might be but he did snap so i know he was already in funny form.

i dont even feel better for gettin it off my chest.

A bit difficult to sort out if you dont know whats wrong. Ask him when he comes home.

Is it your dog? Should you have been controlling it?

Or am I gettng hold of wrong end of stick?

yes its my dog but he was being funny before that, normally he would have just called the dog down himself, it wouldnt be a reason for him to snap. he's not back yet, im just wondering if im being a bit oversensitive. i wil talk to him when he's back i just dont want to be having a row if its just me being soppy.

Are you sure he wasn't smiling at your shape in a nice way this morning, rather than smirking?

Perhaps he is anxious about you being overdue etc?

Not making excuses for him if he is being a twat of course.....

its hard to say as i think when pregnant you automatically presume they don't like your figure when in fact its supposed to be found sexy by most men so maybe you shouldn't have taken it personally or presumed it was because he didnt like the look of you

you should have taken ds on your own as dp and ds have now gone out and again your stewing on your own

maybe you too are just very anxious at the moment and a bit hormonal not that its a bad thing you are nearly due to give birth lol

but he may have just been admiring your form or maybe you were in a funny pose at the time he hasn't said anything in case you interpreted as looking odd or huge etc

just talk with him when he gets home or just try to forget it , its all very silly and not really over much at all to go back over it could cause arguments that isn't needed

try and rest up while you can and enjoy the peace

i think your both just very anxious don't read too much into it enjoy the time together

yep you're probably spot on, were probbly both gettin anxious with being overdue and not seeing it. i just wish he'd told me wha he was smirking at. it cracks me up when he witholds and he knows i know he's doing it.

but maybe he thought you'd take it the wrong way or maybe he actually wasn't smirking who knows your both under a lot of stress and its really not that important

pull together don't fight over silly things kiss and make up when he gets home and relax if you can, good luck for coming birth x

thats true, were both big old stubborn asses so thats probably all it was.