Would you think this odd?

[hmmwhatdoyouthink]

If your partner sent a text to someone straight after leaving the house at 7am "saying I'm available to talk, can you call as early as possible"

you must ask him. there is no shame in feeling suspicious if thats how you feel. everyone has a right to feel secure in a relationship, - if you don't then ask your partner, and he should have no problem reassuring you. if you go behind his back and keep checking his phone then he will resent that.

pnd is tough isn't it? Are you having counselling? this helped me enormously.

Hmmwhatdoyouthink

Well obviously I dont know the full extent of it but.....

He talked online, texted and talked on a mobile to lots and lots of 'ladies'

Sometimes he spoke to a person once or twice, some he had a longer contact with

At the time I read quite a few of the messages and yes quite a few were simalar to the one you quote - Which doesnt mean your dp is messing about as mine was, it could all be totally innocent

Ask him and find out (My H is an expert liar so asking didnt really help.....)

Good Luck

if my dh sent it, i'd assume it was business. could be to a work colleague who is also leaving home imminently. wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet, but would prick up my ears.

IIRC you have posted something similar before. Have you not talked to him yet?

My H sends loads of messages of that ilk - simply because during certain times he can't talk 'work' because of kid stuff.

And sometimes he might have an issue that occurs at 5 AM, but he can't 'talk' to people properly until he leaves our house at 7.

You sound quite 'flat' hmmmm, how do you feel generally?

how did you find out? Did I miss that bit? Were you looking through his phone as you are suspicious for other reasons?

hmm the GP sounds like a plan. Look after yourself.
FWIW that text message alone would not worry me in the slightest

sorry for disapearing last night. I have no real reason for being suspicious not even sure why I looked tbh. He hasn't given me cause for concern.

Yes I do feel very "flat" at the mo. I think I will go back to gp next week.

I don't think you have to be a 'delusional, paranoid wreck' to misread something innocent. Depression can be quite subtle in how it changes your perception. When I'm depressed, my instinct is impaired---but I'm not delusional, and don't think the OP is either. However, I think she could be a tiny bit paranoid due to her depression, and tempted to see the worst in a situation.