Me and my xp split up on new years day this year, this was after a very rock year last year we had a trial seperation for 4 months then decided to try again, which was all fine for a couple of months then it he just seemed to suddenly change.
We've managed to keep it all fairly amicable, and have pretty much stayed friends, I had a shock about a week ago that he is now seeing someone else, which I would of been ok with except the fact that 1 of the reasons we had problems when we were together were due the v flirty texts I found on his phone from this girl, he has always said its just innocent fun, which I found v hard to believe but gave him the benefit of the doubt!
Anyway fri night I get a call from him pissed out of his face saying he's coming over at 3am! I told him not to but he did anyway, let himself in, he still has a key because he picks ds up from nursery and takes him to my house whilst I'm at work. He then gets into my bed naked and tries to have sex with me. I didnt sleep with him and eventually he passed out.
The next morning he manages to persuade me to kiss him and we have a little fumble, which I know was really stupid of me. I didnt actually have sex with him though, when I asked about the ow he told me I got it all wrong and that he just has a laugh with her and hasnt slept with her.
So after he left, I text the ow asking what was going on between them because I feel I derserve to know when he turns up at my house at 3 in the morning. I didnt get a reply but half an hour later get a phonecall from xp asking why I text her and that she is really upset etc. I told him I didnt want to be messed around and he cant just come round to my house and expect to sleep with me. We had along chat and he said he still thinks about me all the time and is still physically attracted to me, but we cant be together because we just dont get on.
I just dont understand him, its so hard because we do get on really well at the moment and I still have feelings for him, we text each other most days, which is really not helping me get over him. I cant stand the thought of the 2 of them together, how do I stop feeling like this?
I am making a point of getting on with my life, Ive been camping with my ds (which he would never do). Ive got a good group of friends who I see a few times a week, but he is always at the back of my mind.