dp came home @ 4am then called me another name 3 times

[ThePreciousIdiot]

Not sue how I feel. I am trying to laugh it off as he was v v drunk and could have been an innocent mistake but he had lied about where he'd been. I don't know why he lied as he was only at a mutual friends house.

sounds a bit dodgy, been in that situation and it's one of those situations whaere you will NEVER know the full answer. It's not nice. What was the second lie?? something white???

Hope it works out for the best for you.

My man has lied to me from day one! It doesn't get any easier, (if anything they get better at it). It's been 7 years and I still find out things he's lied about! I have forgiven him soooooo many times, and sometimes feel like a damn fool, but when you really love them, its hard to make the break over something that you argue with yourself over. Does that make sense?
Dp called me another name once, while we were in bed. He totally denies saying it, but i know what i heard.
I've doen the searching through pockets, bags etc. Dont feel bad about it, it's just a way oftrying to keep your sanity. Then,if you find someting, at least you know you're not going completely mad.
Sometimes men will fantasise about other women, whether they know them personally, or its a film star. And sometimes they will roll over in bed and mutter a name in their sleep, sometimes its when they're bladdered and a bit horny... sometimes when they've been day dreaming, and the first name they call out, to make them a cuppa, is that of the 'fantasy bird'.
Hope things are a bit better for you today TPI, It's a tough one
xx