Rant about friend & his new -ish gf!

[Claire2009]

What a bitch!!!

I was 'seeing' this bloke last year for 3-4mths. We decided we were best off being friends and thats been great
Then he got with this new girl and she's hell, she bought him a pup 1wk into their relationship! Then cheated on him, he found out & they split. Him being left with this pup, I took the pup as a favour! But bloody hell, I got 3mths of abuse from her because of it!

They got back together, she wanted the dog back..etc etc..just extremely childish pathetic stuff! [grrr]

They split after a few weeks, again, and we carried on our friendship throughout this nastiness from the gf. Allbeit a distant friendship.

They've not got back together, after a 5mth break and she's giving me hell AGAIN cos were friends! She signed into his msn tonight and chatted away pretending to be him, then proceeded to be very nasty and tell me my kids were ugly etc etc

Now, I know where she works and have had enough of this. I'm generally not an angry person but ffs girl grow up!!

I don't chat to him much at all, but when we do its nice to chat. But she's so fecking jealous I want him and things (which I soo dont!!!) she's nasty to me!!

All I've done it help him by taking the pup on when he shouldn't have had it in his flat (No pets allowed!)

GRRRRR!!!!!!! Sorry for the rant! Hes a good friend but am gonna have to say Goodbye to him and our friendship while hes with this fecking looney!

Well I hope you are happy with the dog, as that sounds like the best thing you are going to get out of this situation.
I do sympathise, some women are demented bunny-boiling losers - basically, let your friend go, sooner or later he will realise for himself that she's a loon and a PITA and then be friends again.

Thanks
The dog is a year old & very happy now! As am I with her

But this girl is crazy!!!

She sounds like a bitch for bringing your DC's into it. I understand jealously about female friends (I'm a bit like this) but if she was that into him why cheat then? She doesn't have a leg to stand on. Tell her to fuck right off.

I've told her to fuck right off. Many a time! I had threats from her last night that I've to 'Watch my back' I told her to come round right now but she didn't answer any of that.....silly cow..!

He's just as stupid for getting back with her!

Good on you for sticking up for yourself. Why didn't she come round? Hoping you were going to be terrified was she, and got confused when she got some attitude back?
Explain to him that you feel you have to keep your distance at the moment, not because you're scared, but you just don't need it. I'm sure other mates will do the same and then hopefully he'll wake up a bit. He might have got back because he's scared of her himself?

He's back with her cos she's an easy sh*g (in his words!!!!! ) so its obviously not gonna last long based on that!

I'm keeping well out of it now, not even talking to him!

Oh well, she obviously has SO much respect for herself. Don't worry, you have the high ground here 100%. Everything will work out in your favour eventually, it always does in these situations. If she threatens you again just ask why she didn't come round last time then. What a twat.

what did he say when you told him that she'd pretended to be him on MSN

He's not replied to any texts, I'm not gonna call either.

But her FB status says Single, so I am thinking they may have split up dunno!

Might pop him an email & tell him, I did message him via Fb when she was on his Msn explaining what she was doing but never got a reply from that & I got deleted & blocked ....I think she has/had access to his Msn & Fb so she done it all.

He can spell! We've always got on, regardless of me liking or not liking who he is seeing. It was def her on Msn!!!!

Silly bitch! She works in town in Boots, I'm so tempted to go in there & ask for her saying she wanted to see me!? That would make her day

Well well...they've split up!

And he's requested to be my friend on Fb & sent a message apologising for that night...I've messaged back asking what the f*&k went on etc but not sure I even want to accept his request....

TBH he doesn't sound like much of a prize either. I'd be inclined to walk away really.

Has he apologised for her behaviour towards you? He doesn't sound like the greatest friend.

She is clearly a twat, not least for giving a living animal as a present, and then wanting it back after having abandoned it.

Yes he said "Sorry for what went on the other night, totally wrong" I replied "Wtf went on? Whats going on?!" had no reply yet but he works till 12-1am (Pub Manager)..

He's status says "In a r/s" her's says "Single" so I am not sure wtf is going on now

Think I'm gonna walk away, all too childish for my liking..

Are you sure you're not actually interested in him? I think I might be picking up those feelings from your post.

Oh god, no, not at all!!
As a friend he's great to chat to, be around but nothing more!

Well he's not that great if he is prepared to date a loon just because she will let him have sex with her - and talk about her in such disrespectful and unkind terms (however loony and unpleasant she may be, no one is forcing him to have sex with her). Is he completely desperate but too mean to pay for sex?

Desperate I'd say!!! He's a loser & I'm leaving this now!!!

Thanks for the replies!