Just found out ex p has given me chlymidya

[notoverit]

What an arse hole!!! we were together for 5years, but had alot of problems and broke up alot, when I was pregnant we brok up and he did not contact me for 7weeks. I then found out he had been seeing someone else, she said it was for over a year. But he tried to convince me she was lying and said he would prove it.

So we tried to sort out our relationship but was still on and off alot as I had trust issues. Then I found lots of texts on his phone from girls, so I called them and they said they had slept with him. Again he tried to convince me it was lies and I didnt believe him but did still want it to work.

We broke up becuse of the cheating issues and he was violent.

I had swabs taken recently and my doctor called me to say I have Chlymidya. I told him and he was trying to deny it then said yea good you have got it I dont give a shit.

I tried to find out how long I could have had it? As if it was from when I was pregnant I am thinking dd could have it too?

But I'm pretty sure I had some swabs taken after dd was born due to not trusting him.

He has caused me so many problems over the last two years because of his cheating and lying. I feel it is so unfair and he should have someone do something really bad to him so he can hurt like I have.

What an arse. I've had it and it was treated very easily with one dose of antib's.. I'm not sure if it can be transmitted in utero though.

I'm not sure if they check you for this when you are pregnant - they do other things. Also don't think it will have any effect on your baby even if you did have it then, BUT don't you worry, what goes around comes around - he will get what's coming to him one of these days.

Really, hopefully dd wont have any problems but will check with doctor tomorrow to be sure.

If it was a potential problem they would check pregnant women for it I'm sure.

I think I was checked for this after dd was pregnant not during. But I was going to get it checked when I found out about the girl who said they were in a relationship for a year, but I was 2weeks away from giving birth and couldn't bring myself to get checked.

I'm sure I have been checked after dd was born so will ask my doctor to look on the system.

I just cannot believe what a looser he is, and I'm going to be stuck with him in my life for ever as he is dd's dad.

He even tried to say I must have caught it off someone else, but I know thats impossible as I would have had to sleep with someone first.

I just cannot understand why he will never admit to anything.

Just two weeks ago he told me he slept with the girl once who said she was in a relationship with him (with a condom). It has taken him 2years to admit that as up untill then told me he kissed her once, but flirted alot and was very friendly.

You can have chlamydia for a long time without having symptoms, but the policy is to offer all pregnancy women a test during pregnancy (I had this recently, and you get the option to say you don't want it--but sounds like you'd have said you wanted it). It can cause eye and lung problems if transmitted from mother to baby.

I don't think there's any way to tell exactly how long you've had it, unless you can find the results previous tests to help narrow it down.

Best to talk to the GP tomorrow and find out if Chlamydia can be asymptomatic in babies/children.

yes defintly I will check with my doctor. I will get the medication to clear it up and then I really have to move on with my life.

He has really messed me upand treated me badly, its hard to know how to move on fully.

It sounds like you're well rid of him! I don't know much about CSA, but I bet the people in the Lone Parents section will be able to help you with that (if you haven't tried to get support payments already).

I reckon they will also know about arranging visitation. Wish you the best.

thank you...