My dp has not had much work since before xmas. Say 4 weeks work max, he's self-employed. I work part-time at weekends.
We are in serious financial trouble, loads of debt, loans & credit cards that haven't been paid since before christmas.
Every month we've been struggling to get the mortgage money.
He applied for a credit card last week, for emergencies, he said. Then started going on about buying guitar hero game for wii for £130.
He's so selfish. I never have anything or the kids, but we've argued about buying it for days and today he ordered it off of amazon.
He hasn't had money to pay any child maintenance to his first ex since christmas, but he thinks he deserves the game!!!!
I'm so angry. We have a ds 1, i have a dd 5 and he has a ds 7.
How can he not work regulary but think this is ok?
Giving him the cold shoulder. But not sure how what to do? Nothing I say obviously matters.
Also when it arrives, he's going to sit on his arse playing it, giving him less incentive to get work, whilst we struggle to pay the bills & the creditors come after our home.
My car is breaking down, keeps overheating. can't afford to take kids on days out!! But all value food shopping. My dd can't have school dinners.
He is due a tax rebate soon, but he doesn't see my point that if we owe so much money £40k that and we're meant to be going on a 3 week holiday in october(his parents paying for flights), you just don't get luxuries!!!!