Exp is friends with the girl he swore he did not sleep with...

[newlysinglemummy]

When I was pregnant I found out exp had another girlfriend for over a year. He swore she was lying and said he would prove it.

We have broken up now but I looked on facebook and saw he is on her friends list. I cannot see his friends as have to be his friend before I view other friends.

For nearly 2years I have been tormented trying to find out if she was lying or him. He said they were just friends but she did fancy him and they did kiss once.

And she was lying as thinks she will get him for herself if i break up with him. I knew it was lies but he completly denied it and said he would prove it.

Anyway I know this is cheeky but I'm wondering if I can add anyone as myfriend on face book as I have made an account and cannot add him as a friend untill I have some friends myself. So would anyone let me add them as a friend? Sorry I know it is sad.... I just really need to know what is going on inside his face book page...

Dont feel sad we have all been there
My ex and I have been seperated nearly 3 years - was a very complicated story - the other day someone told me he is on FB (he is computer illiterate) so I checked to discovere his profile is a photo of him and the baby he had with OW while we were married (no sign of my 2 DD's with him, the 2nd born after I took him back)!
On his friends, the OW who he swore (still) that he isnt with, all his mates who are now also on her friends list !!!

Now I have genuinely moved on, we are getting divorced, I have a wonderful new DP of nearly months now who I and my DD's adore
BUT I spent nearly an hour looking at their pages/friends lists tormenting myself, until I remembered some very wise words told me here - "the best revenge is a life well lived", and that is what I am doing and being happy
So I blocked him and her and will not look again - FB can torture you !! I suggest you do the same xx

SIX months that is !

Thank you for the replies everyone, I am feeling more rational now, I was just abit pissed last night when I saw they are friends. But TBH I dont want him and I suppose that if he is with her will hopefully keep him away from me. But saying that, the night he smashed my door in he had another girl in his flat when he was arrested the next morning. So maybe being with other women does not take his mind off me.

What ever, I am moving on with my life, not with other men, but just getting life on track for me and my lovely dd.

I am glad he is not in my life and I just need to not give a shit about him and other women. I didn't cry about it and I usually do, I think I was expecting it really, so not surprised. Well I'm sure he will end up where he belongs in the gutter. And me and dd, will be fine, I am going to start a course so that as soon as she is at school, I will be in a good job with good money...