I suspect I may be over-reacting here but if there is one thing that makes me wary of people, it's lying.
So I've been with my partner for around two months. We have purposely introduced the kids (mine and his) as friends and we have been on many days out together, the idea being that eventually the kids will realise in their own time that we're more than friends but it will be done slowly and subtly. So no big shock and no awkward "meet mummy's/daddy's new boy/girlfriend etc.
This has worked out brilliantly so far. However yesterday he told me that his daughter has no idea that we're more than friends yet ... then in the next breath he told me that she has already offered to give up her room if we were to move in with them. So she must know? why did he lie and say she didn't?
He's done similar things in the past. I think the problem is that he tends to think very far ahead and feels embarrassed to admit that he has all these plans for us so early on, so the lies are designed to make it seem like he isn't as far thinking as he is.
But to me, lying (on any scale) is a warning sign ... or am I over-reacting?