Cba to namechange. Split with exh last year, been together 10 years and have 3 children.
Basically I think he was abusive to me but he denies that completely. I'm so split in what I think, one minute I know he did the next I think maybe he was right.
He shouted a lot, complained about anything the minute he walked in the door (I was a sahm), put me down, insulted me, called me names etc etc . There was also violence. He put his hands round my throat one night, I've had many bruises from being pulled and dragged etc.
He never admitted he did anything, said it was all bullshit and I don't even know anymore, maybe it was just me. I hate feeling like this, I know how I felt at the time but when someone says so much they didnt' so anything it makes you wonder even though you know deep down they did.