I've been chatting to a man online (online dating) for 3 weeks. He seemed lovely, always nice to chat to, never a bad word to say about anyone and I was really looking forward to meeting him.
So we agreed to meet today for a coffee. I waited for him outside and he turned up a few minutes late. He walked over and smiled. I smiled back and when he reached me he said the following:
"Hiya, look I'm going to honest, no point in wasting each other's time, I don't think this will work. There is no attraction there on my side. I'm really sorry, hope you've not had far to come?"
I didn't know what to say so just stood there looking stupid and gormless (and probably very red). In the end I just said "No, I was in town anyway". He smiled again and said "That's alright then. Well hope you find what you're looking for, good luck" he then patted me on the shoulder and walked off, all smiles.
I was GUTTED. Not because I liked him, but because of the way I felt he treated me. This was my first 'date' since my marriage break up and it took alot of guts for me to go. I feel like all the confidence I've built up over the past few years has drained away in one day.
Half of me is wondering if that was his plan all along, just a laugh for him.
I feel really depressed and I know I'm being pathetic and probably over reacting does anyone see why I'm so upset or am I being OTT about it all?