I suspect that this runs far deeper then I am able to write on here but here goes....
I have a DS and when he was born I suffered with PN Depression, I had to give up my job to be a SAHM and found it very lonely and isolating. At the time my mum who I was very close to was starting a new career and was very involved in that and as a result now says that she wasn't even aware that I was depressed.
Fast forward to now and my younger sister has had a baby and is due to start back at work soon. My mum is going part time at work so that she will be off on the days that my sister needs childcare but my mum will not say to me that she is doing it to look after him. I have asked her and all she will say is she will help out occasionally which is fair enough but I still can't help thinking that she is avoiding admitting that she will be helping my sister with childcare on a weekly basis. If she would just say that they have made plans and this is what is happening then I could accept it but as it is I feel as though I am being indirectly lied to by them.
Am I being paranoid?