I've been with dh for 8.5yrs (since I was 16 and he was 18) and we've been married for 3yrs. We have a 4yr old ds and a 2yr old ds together. I do love him but sometimes I actually don't know why. He drives me mad and often acts like one of the kids. I honestly feel like a mother of 3, lol!!
He's good in some ways, has a good job, isn't lazy around the house and I know he'd never cheat on me or anything like that. But I'm sick of his childish attitude and the way he causes arguments over stupid things. Ds1 wasn't planned and everytime we have an argument about the kids he always says how he never wanted any and isn't cut out to be a Dad. I hate it when he says that cos I know he loves them to bits but it is true, he didn't want any kids and it was kind of forced upon him. I just think that he should grow up, be a man and be happy with what he's got. He's nearly 27 now. Maybe he feels trapped and sometimes he can't do the things he wants to do like football and going out with his mates cos I work too and rely on him to watch the kids sometimes. Am I being unfair? Should I just be glad of his good points? I know there's no such thing as the perfect man, lol!