Im in the final year of a degree (Nearly finished) after 3 years of working really hard, as Im not a natural genius! Been with hb more than 10yrs, but only living together for the last 8 months. When I lived alone with my dc there was no prob, as hb lived/worked along way from us we met up every few weeks for few days at a time, now he is with us permanantly there has been so many probs with me and studying. He thinks Im selfish because I spend so much time with my head in a book, I have tried to compromise (getting up at 5am to study while he sleeps, etc) but he is still convinced im putting studies 1st. I literally have about 2 months left, but he is getting me down with constant moaning. I think im a good wife and mum (dc is fine with it all) I still do all the household chores, but admit Im not the most interesting company while I struggle with essays. Has anyone else been in this situation?