I have reached a crossroads in my lief and have no idea which way to turn and am hoping you lovley mumsnetters might be able to offer me an objective opinion.
Dh and i have been together 8 years, have 3 yo ds. Have had lots of terrible (really terrible ) rows in past, both of our fulats. His shouting when angry and generl behaviour when angry has frightened me on many occasions (he knows this). I left last year and ended up getting invloved with someone else. Dh knows all about this. Dh can be very kind and thoughtful and we have a lovley house and earns alot of money. However we hardly ever have sex (i don't really want to and he's not that bothered although said if i were more postive about things, he d be more inclined to, however hasn't happened much in the past), i don't feel that close to him (more of a friend really), we are at opposite end of the scale in terms of being emotional, dealing with stress, planning things, etc. The other man is gentle, more in touch with his and my emotions and i do fancy him. he doesn't earn as much and the financil side owrries me as bit and i worry most about disrupting ds's life, ans also regretting leaving dh. help please, i'm going out of my mind