We have split but I really dont want to...

[lauraloola]

Dp and I have been together for 6 years and have a 9mo dd. It has been a very tough 6 years with several threatened break ups etc.

For the last 9 months he has slept on the sofa and for the last 3 months we havent really talked about anything or got on.

He wants to move out into a shared house and that be that. I really want to give it another go and go to Relate and really make a go at it.

I have just text him this and have had no reply.

I dont think he loves me anymore. Is there anything I can do or just let it go??

It takes two of you to make it work. If he isn't prepared to do that then you have to let it go.

My ex left a year ago, after 17yrs. Just announced one day that he couldn't live like this anymore (like what??? we had had a rough couple of years since the birth of ds2, but things had seemed to be getting better). he wasn't prepared to do anything in trying to work it out, he had decided it was over and that was it.

It was very very very hard, but I am getting through it, if you need to then you will aswell.